Refraction
With a lens in hand, we need
to see, what our mind do to us, it simply refracts the each thought and idea
which comes through it and divert it in different forms, instead, get a focus
of what was real need of that idea, or the background or ground beneath that
idea, why that was generated.
In a group of discussion,
biases existing in our own minds, towards caste, gender, groups, prevail, who
cares to see the situation as it really is. It will be lot more easier, when we start to Understand !!!
To simplify the above, a
simple illustration, we all can relate to is : a teacher lecturing in a class,
seems so boring to some students and may appeal at large to some students, very
less of them realise, why she is speaking continuously, what was the need. She
came all along to give you some lecture and why are you sitting there to listen
to her, or in their way of understanding – further say, why they are compelled to
sit at that place to grasp her ways of teaching. Those who do not try to get
that underlying ground for their presence at that place, will leave all that is
said or told, in the classroom only. Those who will simply understand, there is
a reason, behind appointing and presence of a teacher – to take their learning
to next level, will take some of the words spoken by teacher with them, for
their own good.
The ways of learning for all
of us are different, as per our convenience mostly. Today I read a message
which says “The capacity to learn is a
gift; The ability to learn is a
skill; the willingness to learn is a
choice – Brian Herbet.”
In the above message, my
simple understanding said, all are visitors to this earth with various forms of
teachings around us, only our willingness to learn what we really want to,
takes us to the next level of learning; else we are all confined to our
existing levels; The blame goes to environment, people and surrounding for not
treating us, right !!
Instead, our own willingness
helps us to understand what really happened or happening. We simply enjoy and
when are stopped from that enjoyment, a resentment is developed as a reflex
action, which converts into so much noise into us, which gives us all anxiety
and we become danger to others. We blame them, creating life uneasy for others
!! Instead of blame, willingness to learn will develop and enhance our own capability
to see that situation, with an insight !!
